Real Estate

Is Renting Really a Waste of Money?

We used real calculators to compare renting vs buying. The results challenge conventional wisdom about homeownership.

LifeByNumbersPublished on November 29, 20246 min min read

You've probably heard it before: "Renting is just throwing money away!" But is this really true? We ran the numbers using our calculators, and the results might surprise you.

The Traditional View

The conventional wisdom says buying a home is always better because:

  • You're building equity instead of paying someone else's mortgage
  • Property values tend to increase over time
  • You get tax benefits from mortgage interest deductions

But this ignores several important factors. Let's see what the calculators actually show.

We Ran the Numbers: A Real Comparison

Using our Mortgage Calculator, we analyzed the true costs of buying a $400,000 home - a typical starter home in many US markets.

The True Cost of a $400,000 Home

We entered these parameters:

  • Home price: $400,000
  • Down payment: $80,000 (20%)
  • Interest rate: 7.0% (current market rate)
  • Loan term: 30 years

Calculator Results:

Cost CategoryMonthlyAnnualOver 30 Years
Principal & Interest$2,129$25,548$766,440
Property Tax (1.2%)$400$4,800$144,000
Home Insurance$150$1,800$54,000
Maintenance (1%)$333$4,000$120,000
Total Housing Cost$3,012$36,144$1,084,440

Interpretation: On a $400,000 home, you'll pay over $1 million in total housing costs over 30 years. The mortgage alone costs $766,440 - that's $446,440 in interest on a $320,000 loan.

Run your own mortgage numbers

The Hidden Costs Most People Miss

Beyond the mortgage, homeowners face costs renters don't:

Opportunity Cost of Down Payment

That $80,000 down payment could be invested instead. Using our calculators, we found:

  • $80,000 invested at 7% for 30 years = $609,246
  • That's over $529,000 in potential gains you're giving up

Closing Costs and Transaction Fees

  • Buying: 2-5% of purchase price = $8,000-$20,000
  • Selling: 5-6% realtor fees + costs = $24,000+
  • Total transaction costs: $32,000-$44,000

Maintenance Surprises

The 1% rule is just an average. In any given year:

  • Roof replacement: $8,000-$15,000
  • HVAC system: $5,000-$10,000
  • Water heater: $1,000-$2,000
  • These don't happen every year, but when they do...

The 5% Rule: A Quick Comparison

Financial experts often cite the "5% Rule" to compare renting vs buying:

  1. Calculate 5% of the home's value
  2. Divide by 12 to get a monthly "breakeven" rent
  3. If your rent is less than this number, renting might be better

For our $400,000 home:

  • 5% = $20,000 per year
  • Monthly breakeven = $1,667

Interpretation: If you can rent a comparable property for less than $1,667/month, renting could make more sense financially. Our analysis shows the true monthly cost of ownership is $3,012/month - almost double the breakeven point.

Real Scenarios: When Does Buying Win?

We modeled several scenarios to find when buying actually comes out ahead:

Scenario 1: Short-Term Stay (5 Years)

OptionTotal CostEquity BuiltNet Position
Buy $400k home$180,720$38,000-$142,720 + selling costs
Rent $2,000/mo$120,000$0-$120,000

Winner: Renting - Buying costs more, and transaction costs eat into any equity gains.

Scenario 2: Long-Term Stay (15+ Years)

OptionTotal CostEquity BuiltNet Position
Buy $400k home$542,160$205,000-$337,160 + home value
Rent $2,000/mo (with 3% annual increases)$453,756$0-$453,756

Closer call - Home appreciation and forced savings through equity can favor buying, but only if you stay long enough.

Scenario 3: The Disciplined Renter

What if the renter invests the difference between rent ($2,000) and ownership cost ($3,012)?

  • Monthly investment: $1,012
  • 15 years at 7% return: $319,517

Interpretation: A disciplined renter who invests the savings can build substantial wealth without homeownership.

When Renting Makes Sense

Our analysis shows renting is often smarter when:

  • You might move within 5-7 years - Transaction costs can wipe out equity gains
  • Rent is below the 5% threshold - You're paying less than the true cost of ownership
  • You're disciplined about investing - The math only works if you actually invest the difference
  • The local market is overheated - High price-to-rent ratios favor renters

***** The stock market has historically returned about 10% annually, while home prices have averaged about 3-4% appreciation. A disciplined renter who invests the difference can often come out ahead.

When Buying Makes Sense

Buying becomes more attractive when:

  • You plan to stay 10+ years - Time to recover transaction costs and build equity
  • Rent exceeds the 5% threshold - Some markets have very high rents
  • You want to lock in housing costs - Fixed-rate mortgages protect against rent increases
  • You value autonomy - Renovations, pets, and stability have real value
  • You need "forced savings" - Mortgage payments build equity automatically

Run Your Own Numbers

Every situation is different. Use our Rent vs Buy Calculator to compare your specific scenario:

  • Enter your local home prices and rent
  • Input your expected stay duration
  • See the true breakeven point
  • Compare total costs over time

Compare rent vs buy for your situation

The Bottom Line

Our calculations show that "renting is throwing money away" is a myth. The reality:

  • Buying costs more monthly than most people realize ($3,012 vs $2,000 in our example)
  • Transaction costs eat 5-10% of your home's value when buying and selling
  • Opportunity costs of your down payment can exceed $500,000 over 30 years
  • The 5% rule provides a quick sanity check

Renting isn't "throwing money away" any more than paying for any other essential service. You're paying for shelter, flexibility, and freedom from maintenance headaches.

The key is to be intentional: if you rent, invest the money you save. If you buy, make sure it's truly the right financial move for your timeline and market.

Remember: Your home is where you live, not necessarily your best investment vehicle. Make the choice that fits your life, not just what conventional wisdom dictates.